This Doesn’t Apply to Me

When I was young, I would read this chapter and think to myself: “This chapter is talking to the ministers in church, so it doesn’t apply to me!” 

But of course I was wrong.

Yes, while Paul spends this chapter detailing the criteria for becoming a bishop or deacon, these characteristics are not meant to be limited to these members in position. In fact, the reason Paul sets out these criterias is so that we may know how we ought to conduct ourselves in the house of God which is the church of the living God, the pillar and ground of truth (1 Timothy 3:15). And although God expects more from the church’s spiritual leaders (James 3:1), God also expects ‘ordinary believers’ to walk prudently when they go to the house of the Lord (Ecc 5:1a).

Character over Talent

This chapter also reveals to us what matters most to God in our service: Our character. 

Looking through the list of qualifications Paul lists, other than the ability to teach (1 Timothy 3:2), nowhere else does he mention being talented or gifted in certain works. He doesn’t stipulate that a deacon needs to be eloquent and charismatic. Nor does he insist that overseers are extroverted and bilingual. 

Instead, what is emphasised is the behaviour and heart of these members. Not a drunkard, not of bad temper, not covetous, not greedy for money, and many more (1 Tim 3:2-3, 8-10).

When we are offered the chance to serve God, we might feel that our lack in gifts and talents renders us unsuitable for the service. But in God’s eyes, what He truly values is a sincere, pure, and humble heart. Yet oftentimes, by human weakness it is easier to focus on things that are tangible and felt rather than things unseen. Thus when we get busy with church work, it is easy for us to neglect the cultivation of our hearts.

Looking through the qualifications listed in the chapter, let us reflect on our character in our service to God. (listed below are some of the qualifications mentioned in 1 Tim 3:2-7, 8-13)

• Do we have good testimony among our non-believing peers? 

• Have we become puffed up with pride?

• Have we grown irreverent of God and His church? 

• Have we held fast to the mystery of the faith with a pure conscience? 

• Have we taken charge over our family ensuring our children grow up well in the Lord?